....in-depth NLP training for people who like to think for themselves

 

Updated: Friday, 19 December 2014

Home
Up

 

NLP COURSES

next

NLP Core Skills

begins

7 March 2015

in

The New Forest

 

Pegasus NLP Blog

 

 

Subscribe to Pegasus NLP

 

 

The NLP Swish Technique

The Swish is an NLP technique for dealing with unpleasant feelings.

The version below is based on the traditional NLP Visual Swish and is ideal for people who are 'good visualisers' i.e. can those who can clearly see and easily manipulate their mental images. If you do not fall into this category you can still get quite good results by 'pretending' you can see your mental images change as you run the technique.

You can use the NLP Swish to 'defuse' negative feelings

This is a valuable technique for managing negative thoughts and feelings about:

  • The past: e.g. feelings from embarrassing or irritating memories

  • The present: e.g. feelings provoked by self-undermining thoughts

  • The future: e.g. anxiety-provoking thoughts about forthcoming situations.

How does it work?

Let’s say that....

  1. I am worried about returning to work next week after a few months absence because of illness, maternity leave, or stress. ('Worry' is my Unwanted Feeling)

  2. Every time I imagine walking into the workplace next week I get a churning stomach and racing thoughts. (This image of walking into work is my Trigger)

  3. I know that my reaction is silly and irrational – because everything has been arranged with my employers and they are looking forward to having me back on the team. (Check: I check does this feeling require me to take practical action? And in this case it does not - so it is an ideal candidate for the Swish).

  4. Instead of feeling worried each time I think of walking into the workplace I want to feel enthusiastic and confident. (Seeing myself looking confident and enthusiastic is my ideal Replacement image)

In these 4 points I have got all of the pieces ready to run the Swish. I have

  • Unwanted feeling: The feelings I don’t want

  • Trigger: The thought or image which evokes these negative feelings?

  • Check: I know my anxious feelings are irrational i.e. I don't need to take practical action - it’s just a silly thought

  • Replacement image: I can see myself acting like I wish to be.

I now need to put these together and ‘wire in’ a new mental programme.

Now for the really clever bit about the Swish...

With the Swish (as with many NLP techniques) you don't have to struggle with negative thoughts: you do not need to overcome them or fight them.

Why?  Because you point you thinking in a new direction! You teach your brain a new programme.

In order to have a thought, whether it's negative or positive, your brain needs a signal or a Trigger which lets it know that it's time to stop it's current line of thinking and to start thinking about a new thought.

So, with a negative thought, your brain needs to know when to run the negative thought and its associated feelings. It needs a Trigger.  And in the above example thinking about work is, right now, my Trigger for anxious feelings.

With the Swish you can teach your brain to use this old Trigger to activate a new programme.  In the above example I teach my brain to give me a different feeling i.e. feeling enthusiastic and confident whenever I think of walking into the workplace.

And you can do this by carefully following these steps.

How you can use the Swish

(A)  Preparation & set-up

(1) Unwanted feeling i.e. What do you NOT want?  Identify the thought and/or feeling that you’d like to replace.

(2) Trigger?  What triggers the unwanted feeling i.e. what do you see or imagine seeing just before you feel bad?

(3) Check re practical action! This is very important. The Swish must only be used where the situation does not require practical action. For example, if you have run up debts and are worried by these you could use the Swish to stop feeling bad – but unless you take practical action rather than just use the Swish you would end up in serious financial difficulty.

(4) How do you want to feel instead?  Select your replacement feeling – the one you want the current trigger to evoke. Spend a while reliving this pleasant or empowering moment to make the memory richer.

Make sure your final version is a dissociated image (i.e. you can ‘see’; yourself in the image/situation/memory)

(B) Running the technique

1. Think of the Trigger image and…

2. Place a tiny version of the Replacement image somewhere on the Trigger image and

3. Instantly have the Replacement image get bigger and clearer – as the Trigger image disappears behind it

4. ‘Break state’ briefly – i.e. look around you, check your watch, etc.

That’s Round 1. You need to do about 5-7 Rounds to wire-in the new programme.

Do it quicker each time e.g. first round in no more than 5 seconds then 4, 3, 2, and 1 seconds and a final two or three Rounds at 1 second each.

There's no need to try to get your images to change perfectly - just quickly. Aim for speed rather than accuracy.

(C) Test it

Having done your 5-7 Rounds 'change state' by doing something else for a couple of minutes.

Now discover what happens when you try to recall the Trigger image (i.e. the original  negative image).

If it’s difficult to bring back – or if the negative feeling is no longer evoked by it – you’re done.

  • If it does come back do another 2-4 Rounds

  • If that doesn’t work find a better and more powerful positive Replacement image - and then run the whole Swish from the beginning.

  • And if that doesn’t work it could be that the Trigger is too powerful for the Swish technique – that’s why we have so many techniques, and more in-depth processes, in NLP.

Develop your skill with the NLP Swish

Like every NLP technique or process the Swish is best learned ‘live’ in a workshop where you are able to interact with the facilitator and with other participants -- and where you learn the background steps before you get to actually do the Swish.

That said, you are likely to get good results if you carefully follow the above tips.

The method described above is a version of the traditional NLP Visual Swish technique. It works well for those who are good visualisers especially if it is directed by a coach or trainer using NLP language patterns, anchoring, and who is skilled in recognising non-verbal responses.

To make the benefits of the Swish Pattern more widely available (i.e. to people who do a lot of their thinking in feelings or sounds or self talk) we have developed the Pegasus Diamond Swish. We teach this is our NLP Core Skills courses yet even here it is left until the final day of the workshop so that participants are able to incorporate many of the other skills which they have learned during the workshop in order to make it work more effectively.

 

 

More about negative anchors or hot buttons:

The Swish Technique is one of the best way of defusing a negative anchor

How negative anchors operate in families and close relationships

Why 'positive thinking' doesn't work with negative anchors

NLP and anchors in the supermarket...

An NLP technique for regaining your sense of perspective

Negative anchors - they are not our fault

 

Other articles related to NLP Anchors

Negative anchors and self esteem

Poor weather can be a negative anchor for some people

Anchoring and brands - how marketing uses anchors

Insomnia: the part anchoring plays in staying awake instead of being asleep

 

Bookmark and Share

 

More information about NLP

NLP - what's in it for me?

How to learn NLP

7 tips for choosing an NLP training provider

NLP Core Skills - our course in the New Forest

What people have said about our courses

By Reg Connolly, Director of Training, Pegasus NLP

 

 

 

NLP Courses - NLP Blog - NLP Newsletter - Contact us - Disclaimer - Caution!

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PegasusNLP

Pegasus NLP is a Member of the Professional Guild  of NLP

Pegasus NLP: on the web since 1998  -  © Reg Connolly & Pegasus NLP

We use cookies to ensure you receive best experience on our website. We do not store personal information. If you continue without changing your settings, we’ll assume that you are happy with this. You can read about cookies here.