The Swish TechniqueRe-directionalise thinkingThe Swish technique enables us to quickly dissolve the feelings attached to unwanted thoughts and to deal with unuseful responses. In the Swish we replace the unwanted thought or response with a more useful and appropriate one because the Swish re-directionalises thinking. It is an instruction to the brain No, not that - THIS!! Use it for yourself - and othersThis is a valuable technique for managing your own thinking, states, and behaviours. Each time you use the Swish you are training yourself to instantly re-direct your thinking from unuseful topics to more resourceful ones. By using the Swish in your own life you develop your ability to maintain resourceful states, manage your responses to stressful situations, and engage in the behaviours you want. How to use the Swish1. Select a replacement imageFirst select your Replacement Feeling - ask yourself How do I want to be instead. Having selected the Replacement Feeling see and hear a detached and associated version of yourself experiencing this feeling. It is quite important that this image is dissociated. Enhance the detail and the quality (submodalities) of this until it the image is quite compelling. 2. Find the trigger for the unwanted moodWhat is it that you respond to? How you know when to have the unwanted response or reaction? Ask yourself What occurs just before this negative or un-wanted state begins? This time, you want an associated image of what is going on immediately before you engage in the unwanted activity. 3. Put the replacement in the corner of unwanted imageImagine a small postage-stamp sized version of your replacement picture in the bottom corner of the unwanted picture. 4. Swish the two imagesNow you want t make both images change simultaneously and with increasing speed. (Experienced NLPers will select two critical submodalities to use here. However simply making the images change size and distance from you will work most of the time.) Have the 'negative' image become smaller and shoot off into the distance. At the same time have the 'positive' replacement image become larger and closer until it replaces the negative image completely. Imagine a "swish" sound as you do this - hence the name. That's one Swish sound. (Do this fairly slowly at first taking, say, 5-10 seconds to do it. Then continue, doing it a little faster each time, until you are swishing almost instantaneously - in less than a second!) 5 Clear your mindAfter each Swish round blank your mind, fully! Think of something else or visualise your favourite colour. Breathing easily as you do this since some people tend to hold their breath while concentrating on doing the Swish. It is crucial to the success of the Swish to clear your mind or turn your attention outside before you do each next round. 6 Practice 5-7 timesRepeat steps 3 to 5 up to about seven times until you have difficulty in maintaining the unwanted image. ‘I don’t visualise’This is a common belief. You can do an Auditory or a Kinaesthetic Siswish, too. So if you (or the other person if you are assisting someone else) believe that you have difficulty in visualising you could accept this belief and use a kinaesthetic or auditory swish. Alternately, and often more effectively, you can act 'as if' you are visualising - i.e. you pretend that you visualising and simply follow the steps listed above. Curiously, this will often work just as effectively! Skill with the SwishLike all NLP techniques the Swish is best learned "live" in a workshop where you are able to interact with the facilitator and with other participants -- and where you learn the background steps before you get to actually do the Swish. However you can still get good results if you carefully follow the above tips. Incidentally, the six steps listed above represents the "standard" Swish traditionally used in NLP. It works very well for many people, especially if it is used alongside lots of other NLP skills such as the use of language patterns, anchoring, and a keen of awareness of non-verbal responses. In our Pegasus NLP Core Skills workshop we use a different and more sophisticated version of the Swish. Even here it is left until the final day of the workshop so that participants are able to incorporate many of the other skills which they have learned during the workshop in order to make it work more effectively. There is more information about NLP hereNLP FAQ Why learn NLP How to learn NLP Where to learn NLP - and how to choose a training provider NLP Core Skills - our course in the New Forest What's special about Pegasus NLP Trainings What people have said about our courses How we integrate NLP with outdoor activities |