The Pegasus NLP Newsletter Archive (2): NLP in Communicating The following articles explore how you can use NLP in your relationship with others - at home, socially, and at work. Many of the topics overlap into the other archive categories -- so be sure to also check these out, too. How to have great relationships How to value your close relationships and keep them fresh and stimulating (1 February 2000 - the first issue of the Newsletter). Make your own day with The Glitch Technique! How to be more in charge of your responses to others None of us is as smart as all of us - how a team can be smarter that the individuals who are part of it Negative Anchors and your close relationships Calibrated loops - a special form of un-useful anchor that can seriously damage close relationships. Verbal Landmines (1): 'But' The tiny little word that can sabotage our good intentions when communicating. Gimme Time to Think! On application of the NLP eye accessing cues in communication Good intentions aren't good enough - recognising and utilising non-verbal feedback NLP Eye Movements - how and why to talk less! Soft Eyes - peripheral vision and in communicating Unconscious Leakage How to recognise and respond appropriately to the subtle forms of non-verbal communication. Prejudice and self-fulfilling prophecies Our tendency to see and hear (mainly) what meets our expectations. NLP & Eye Contact Patterns How to enhance rapport through matching eye contact patterns. Message intended vs. received Good intentions are not enough: take responsibility for how your message is received. Receive Button 'out of order' The importance of listening skills and why the skill of real listening is very important. Unfair Criticism How to best deal with criticism that you consider to be unfair or unjustified Representational systems - (1) Predicates The give-away words and phrases which indicate how best to communicate with someone. Representational systems - (2) The Eye Accessing Cues How a person moves their eyes provides valuable information about how they are thinking. Differing 'models of the world' Appreciate challenging situations from different viewpoints Coaching and the NLP Meta Model The Meta Model is one of the most valuable NLP tools for coaching others. NLP & Advice Giving "Why won't they take my advice - and change their lives!" NLP and Rapport: The best rapport comes from being genuinely interested in the other person - rather than mechanical techniques! NLP & Self Consciousness (1): how to use NLP to develop and 'other consciousness' attitude to replace self consciousness NLP & Self Consciousness (2): becoming at ease with yourself is an important part of replacing the self consciousness habit
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